Five Irresistible Traits
In the last year or so, there has been an overwhelmingly large desire to understand new paths of behavior and patterns of thinking that can lead to a more fulfilled and happier life. Personality traits are ultimately more important than any exterior physical traits one person may possess over another. Safe to say, there are traits that are too attractive and tempting to be resisted by others who wish to find meaning and meaningful people.
Keep it Cool: Someone who can keep calm and maintain their composure in high-stress situations is attractive. This is scene as being mature and distinguished as well as giving a sense of safety and security to those around them. This type of person is reliable in their behavior and because of their emotional stability, it puts people at ease.
Sense of Humor: This is connected to emotional intelligence and a high degree of self-awareness. I’m not saying you need to be a comedian or a prankster. It’s more about how seriously you take yourself. You know when a situation calls for mature consideration versus when you can make something more light-hearted and fun.
Purpose: The person striving to be the best version of them-self is less likely to be complacent or lazy. It’s not about what your purpose is, but the fact that you have purpose and are working towards it. Knowing what you want and working towards it is heavily desired. Your purpose might change throughout phases of your life, but having one and working towards an end goal is best. When you are working towards your goals, you have a sense of fulfillment which makes you a generally happier person and happier people are more desirable.
Discipline: It’s one thing to know what you want to do, but its an entirely different thing to follow through with it. So many people fall victim to their follow through by making promises to themselves they’re not committed to keeping. You want to create a plan which prompts drive and motivation. By getting things done that you want to get done, you find more room for other things in your life and feel good by doing the things you’re doing.
Integrity: Say what you mean and mean what you say. It’s not enough to say something, but to actually believe and practice what you say. Everyone in your life should feel that you can be honesty around them and trust you to do the things you say you’re going to do. Don’t fall into becoming a people-pleaser by agreeing to everything especially if it goes against your boundaries. You loose people the more you contradict yourself.
-Busy Brain